How to Achieve Anything You Want in LifePlan-
Find a place where you can think without being disturbed. At the end of it all, you are planning for a successful future for yourself, which means you need to first get into the mindset of thinking about and for yourself. You do not need more. Fill out your weekly calendar, noting when you will do what and how. The “when-what-how” of it all is important to schedule. Review how each day went according to what you learned, and reflect on what you could improve.
Focus on Commitment, Not Motivation--
In order to fully commit to something you will need a clear and personally compelling reason. Without a strong desire you will struggle when the implementation gets difficult. Once you have an intense desire to accomplish something you then need to identify the core actions that will produce the result you’re after.
If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow. Our commitments ultimately shape our lives.
Seek Knowledge, Not Results --
“Education is an admirable thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.” If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improvement, exploration, and experimentation, your motivation will always be fueled. If you focus only on results, your motivation will wither the minute you hit an obstacle. The key is to focus on the journey, not the destination. Keep thinking about what you are learning along the way and what you can improve. Research; the curiosity to find the unknown to make it known.
Get Rid of Stagnating Thoughts--
Thoughts influence feelings, and feelings determine how you view your work. You have a lot of thoughts in your head, and you always have a choice of which ones to focus on: the ones that will make you emotionally doubts or the ones that will move you forward. Many times, the thought of fear itself is greater than what it is we fear. When you stay too long in the same place, things and people go to pot on you, they rot and start stinking for your special benefit.
Use Your Imagination--
The next step after getting rid of negative thoughts is to use your imagination. When things go well, you are full of positive energy. When you are experiencing difficulties, you need to be even more energetic. So rename your situation. If you keep repeating “I hate my work,” guess which feelings will rise to the top? It’s a matter of imagination! You can always find something to learn, even from the worst boss in the world at the most boring job.I have a great exercise for you: For three days, think and say positive things only.
Using Imagination to Solve a Problem:
Think about a scenario without failure.
Spend some time alone.
Stop the criticism.
Brainstorm on your idea.
Get Rid of Distractions--
Meaningless things and distractions will always be in your way, especially those easy things you would rather do instead of focusing on new, challenging, meaningful projects. Learn to focus on what is the most important. Write a list of time wasters and hold yourself accountable to not do them.
Don’t Rely on Others--
You should never expect others to do it for you not even your partner, friend, or boss. They are all busy with their own needs. No one will make you happy or achieve your goals for you. It’s all on you.